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Self -Love , What the frick is that

As men, we are often taught to focus on others and not ourselves. We're told that it's not "manly" to love ourselves and that we should put our needs last. This can be a difficult thing to break free from, especially if we've been doing it for most of our lives. It can be hard to understand why it is so important for us to love ourselves, but the truth is that until we do, we will never be able to truly love anyone else. In this blog post, we will explore the reasons why self-love is so important for men and how we can go about meeting our own needs. We will also dispel the myth that men who love themselves are somehow "less manly" than those who don't. By the end of this post, you will have a better understanding of why self-love is essential for all men and how you can begin to love yourself more. Thanks for reading!


If you're like most men you may not have made it to this point if you did then you are a legend. Men have been programmed to think that they do not need love just as much as women do. Men are told that emotions are a sign of weakness and that men should never show them. This is why it can be so hard for men to understand the concept of self-love because we have been taught the complete opposite our whole lives. men are expected to be strong and never show any type of emotion even if it’s something as menial as being tired. self-love is often seen as a feminine quality but that could not be further from the truth, for men to be emotionally intelligent and stable we need to start loving ourselves.

Many men grow up without ever learning how to meet their own needs let alone actually talking about what that may look like. Men are not typically raised to be in touch with their emotions or even understand what they may be feeling at a given moment. This can make it very hard for men to understand the concept of self-love because we have not been taught how to love ourselves. Men are expected to be stoic and never show any type of emotion even if it would improve the situation.

So how do I start loving myself Luc, well that can be a challenge eh, fellas? but the answer is simpler than you might think.

The first step is to start being honest with yourself, this means being honest about your emotions and what you’re feeling. You can’t start loving yourself if you’re not even aware of what you’re feeling. Once you start becoming more aware of your emotions, the next step is to start accepting.

Acceptance doesn’t mean that you’re happy with everything about yourself, it just means that you are willing to accept yourself for who you are. Once you start accepting yourself, the next step is to start caring for yourself. This means taking care of your physical and emotional needs. If you’re not sure how to do this, a good place to start is by making sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and exercising regularly.

The final step is to start taking action. This means doing things that make you happy and make you feel good about yourself. It can be anything from taking up a new hobby to volunteering your time to spending time with yourself. The important thing is that you’re taking action to improve your life and make yourself happy.

Self-love is not easy, but it is worth it. By taking the steps above, you will be well on your way to a more fulfilling and happier life. Thanks for reading!

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